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Wednesday, January 19, 2011
8 Secrets To Work - Life Success
Decide what is vital:
While Henry Cloud, author of The One-Life Solution: Reclaim Your Personal Life While Achieving Greater Professional Success, was writing a follow-up on his coauthored book Boundaries that would address boundaries "at work," he found it needed to be boundaries "on work," he says. Work no longer operates apart from life, as technology allows business to interrupt restaurant meals, soccer games, or family vacations (thank you, BlackBerry).
Really successful balancers have decided what are vital expenditures of time and energy, Cloud says. Time with specific individuals or in certain activities gets set "like stone" in their schedule, Cloud says. The word vital means "that which gives life." If an audit of your schedule shows 80 percent of your time going to something else, you should be taking steps to fix that.
Prune constantly:
Think of yourself as a gardener. "A rosebush produces more buds than it can feed," Cloud says. Gardeners prune the buds that aren't vital. Successful people constantly reassess their schedules and cut down on nonvital activities. They also may need to prune some relationships.
Successful balancers tend to set aside chunks of time at regular intervals for in-depth examinations of their life, goals, and plans, so that they have a plan that reflects their existing priorities, Cloud says.
Establish partnerships:
Carole-Lynn Glass is a mother of two, including an 11-year-old daughter who has cerebral palsy, but she's been able to maintain her management position at RoseRyan, a consulting firm in Newark, Calif., thanks, in large part, to her husband. While RoseRyan is unusually tolerant of flexible schedules, Glass says she and her husband have had to negotiate—and renegotiate—the balance between work and parenting throughout their marriage. The couple honestly assesses who's most benefiting at a given time and who's taking a backseat, and then looks at how the situation can later be flipped and made fair. "You've got to be able to look at things from the other person's side," Glass says. "Maybe you don't feel like it's your turn...but you have to do it."
Redefine the roles:
Diane Halpern, a psychology professor at Claremont McKenna College and former president of the American Psychological Association, and cowriter Fanny Cheung interviewed female leaders for the upcoming book Women at the Top: Powerful Leaders Tell Us How to Combine Work and Family. Halpern found that many redefined the role of a "good mother." They chose to remain intimately involved in their children's lives and "went to great lengths" for their kids, but they did not believe it was in their, or their children's, best interest to be available 24 hours a day, seven days a week, Halpern says. In one example, a mother decided it was OK for someone else to help her child with homework, so she was able to contribute at work.
While Henry Cloud, author of The One-Life Solution: Reclaim Your Personal Life While Achieving Greater Professional Success, was writing a follow-up on his coauthored book Boundaries that would address boundaries "at work," he found it needed to be boundaries "on work," he says. Work no longer operates apart from life, as technology allows business to interrupt restaurant meals, soccer games, or family vacations (thank you, BlackBerry).
Really successful balancers have decided what are vital expenditures of time and energy, Cloud says. Time with specific individuals or in certain activities gets set "like stone" in their schedule, Cloud says. The word vital means "that which gives life." If an audit of your schedule shows 80 percent of your time going to something else, you should be taking steps to fix that.
Prune constantly:
Think of yourself as a gardener. "A rosebush produces more buds than it can feed," Cloud says. Gardeners prune the buds that aren't vital. Successful people constantly reassess their schedules and cut down on nonvital activities. They also may need to prune some relationships.
Successful balancers tend to set aside chunks of time at regular intervals for in-depth examinations of their life, goals, and plans, so that they have a plan that reflects their existing priorities, Cloud says.
Establish partnerships:
Carole-Lynn Glass is a mother of two, including an 11-year-old daughter who has cerebral palsy, but she's been able to maintain her management position at RoseRyan, a consulting firm in Newark, Calif., thanks, in large part, to her husband. While RoseRyan is unusually tolerant of flexible schedules, Glass says she and her husband have had to negotiate—and renegotiate—the balance between work and parenting throughout their marriage. The couple honestly assesses who's most benefiting at a given time and who's taking a backseat, and then looks at how the situation can later be flipped and made fair. "You've got to be able to look at things from the other person's side," Glass says. "Maybe you don't feel like it's your turn...but you have to do it."
Redefine the roles:
Diane Halpern, a psychology professor at Claremont McKenna College and former president of the American Psychological Association, and cowriter Fanny Cheung interviewed female leaders for the upcoming book Women at the Top: Powerful Leaders Tell Us How to Combine Work and Family. Halpern found that many redefined the role of a "good mother." They chose to remain intimately involved in their children's lives and "went to great lengths" for their kids, but they did not believe it was in their, or their children's, best interest to be available 24 hours a day, seven days a week, Halpern says. In one example, a mother decided it was OK for someone else to help her child with homework, so she was able to contribute at work.
Change the expectations at work:
Successfully balanced mothers tend to create realistic expectations at work. They make it clear that they have family lives outside of work, so that work becomes supportive of family, Halpern says. One might say: "I'm going to walk out and I'm going to go to the [child's] recital in the middle of the day, but I'm going to get my work done." She notes that this is, in some ways, easier for executives than lower-level employees.
Outsource the little things: Many women "outsourced anything that didn't either promote their family or their work," Halpern says. For the executives profiled in her book, outsourcing meant hiring someone to clean the house or to buy gifts. That's generally a convenience that comes with deeper pockets, but working women without the necessary cash reserves may be able to apply a similar principle to their lives and look for ways family members or friends can help with non-necessities.
Outsource the little things: Many women "outsourced anything that didn't either promote their family or their work," Halpern says. For the executives profiled in her book, outsourcing meant hiring someone to clean the house or to buy gifts. That's generally a convenience that comes with deeper pockets, but working women without the necessary cash reserves may be able to apply a similar principle to their lives and look for ways family members or friends can help with non-necessities.
Find a coach or mentor:
Don't bear the burden of career decisions all on your own. Successful women often hear criticism of their efforts as mothers and, separately, as professionals, so it's important to find a coach or mentor who's on board with the effort to balance both roles. The executives in her book "found someone who could support their decisions and really coach them in life," Halpern says.
Draw lines in your head:
One woman interviewed for Halpern's book shared a trick for transitioning from one role to the next: She had a rule that when she passed a certain point on the freeway on the way to work, she would stop thinking about home and start thinking about work. On the way home in the evenings, at that same point, she would stop thinking about work and redirect her thinking back to her family.
Secrets Of GOD
The secret of the Lord is with those who fear him; and he will show them his covenant." Psalm 25:14Believer, your God has some mighty secret to confide to you! What is this, which, (a mystery to the world,) is to be conveyed in whispers into the ears of His people! "He will show them His Covenant!" Listen, this night, to this blessed "secret." You have pondered it often before. But its wonders never diminish by repetition. The Author of it is God- the Eternal Father. He framed its articles before the foundation of the world. It is an inverted order of truth that would represent the atonement as the cause of God's love. God's love was rather the originating cause of the atonement. "God so loved the world." How runs the Covenant-Charter? "Everything belongs to you.... the whole world and life and death; the present and the future. Everything belongs to you, and you belong to Christ, and Christ belongs to God." The initiative- the first overture of covenant-mercy was with Him. It was the insulted Sovereign who first dreamed of mercy towards the rebels; the injured Father who first thought of His ungrateful children. Wondrous secret- that from all eternity, the Heart of God was all Love to us! Think of the Surety of the Covenant. It was the adorable Son of the Father. He voluntarily accepted the Covenant stipulations: "Lo, I come! I delight to do Your will, O my God!" He ceased not, until, all the terms being fulfilled, He could claim His stipulated reward: "I have glorified You on the earth, I have finished the work which You gave Me to do." And still He lives, and reigns, 
and intercedes, under the blessed title of "Mediator of the Everlasting Covenant!" Think of the Almighty Dispenser of the blessings of the Covenant. It is the Spirit of all Grace- the third person in the ever-blessed, co-equal Trinity. Think of the Heirs of the Covenant. They are all who, by simple faith, are willing to appropriate its inestimable blessings. Think of the Security of the Covenant. There is nothing but contingency in other things. But all is certainty in the Covenant- "I will be unto you a God, and you shall be to me a people." Unfailing! it has the rock of Christ's Deity to rest upon; and a Triune God pledged to make good all its provisions- "My covenant will I not break, nor alter the word that has gone out of my mouth!"Think of the Perpetuity of the Covenant: "I will betroth you unto me forever!" Think of the rich Inheritance of the Covenant. Oh! here is the mighty secret of unfathomable love: "If children, then Heirs- Heirs of God." "Heirs of God!" All within the compass of Omnipotence to bestow! "God," says Beveridge, "thus speaks. "I AM that I AM!" He puts His hand to a blank check, that His people may write under it what they please, that is for their good.My soul! are you an heir of God? Can you look upwards to the throne of that Great "I am," and say, "my God?" Happier words- a more glorious a
ssurance- cannot thrill on an archangel's tongue! With such a Portion as this, surely I am independent of all others. Let that amazing "secret" form the last thought of this day; and, as the Almighty is even now whispering it in my ears, I may close my eyes, repeating– "I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety." Psalm 4:8
and intercedes, under the blessed title of "Mediator of the Everlasting Covenant!" Think of the Almighty Dispenser of the blessings of the Covenant. It is the Spirit of all Grace- the third person in the ever-blessed, co-equal Trinity. Think of the Heirs of the Covenant. They are all who, by simple faith, are willing to appropriate its inestimable blessings. Think of the Security of the Covenant. There is nothing but contingency in other things. But all is certainty in the Covenant- "I will be unto you a God, and you shall be to me a people." Unfailing! it has the rock of Christ's Deity to rest upon; and a Triune God pledged to make good all its provisions- "My covenant will I not break, nor alter the word that has gone out of my mouth!"Think of the Perpetuity of the Covenant: "I will betroth you unto me forever!" Think of the rich Inheritance of the Covenant. Oh! here is the mighty secret of unfathomable love: "If children, then Heirs- Heirs of God." "Heirs of God!" All within the compass of Omnipotence to bestow! "God," says Beveridge, "thus speaks. "I AM that I AM!" He puts His hand to a blank check, that His people may write under it what they please, that is for their good.My soul! are you an heir of God? Can you look upwards to the throne of that Great "I am," and say, "my God?" Happier words- a more glorious a
ssurance- cannot thrill on an archangel's tongue! With such a Portion as this, surely I am independent of all others. Let that amazing "secret" form the last thought of this day; and, as the Almighty is even now whispering it in my ears, I may close my eyes, repeating– "I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety." Psalm 4:8Struggle For Freedom
The Revolt of 1857 shook the very foundation of the British rule in India. In March 1857, the Indian army at Barrackpore mutinied and this rebellion spread to the other areas to become a bid for Indian independence.The revolt proved a turning point in India's history though it was suppressed by the British. It was the first serious attempt of a large section of the country to throw off the British yoke. The uprising was expression of widespread discontent with and anger towards the British rule.After the revolt the British parliament took over the entire responsibility of governing India.
1929
Mahatma Gandhi led the civil Disobedience Movement which was launched in the Congress Session of December 1929. The aim of this movement was a complete disobedience of the orders of the British Government. It during this movement that it was decided that India would celebrate 26th January as Independence day all over the country. On 26th January 1930 meetings were held all over the country and the Congress tricolour was hoisted .
1942
We shall either free India or die in the attempt; We shall not live to see the perpetuation of our slavery" - Mahatma Gandhi ( Quit India Movement) The Congress passed the famous Quit India resolution at a session in Bombay. The movement called for non-violent but wide spread struggle for India's freedom. But before the Congress could start the movement, the government arrested all the major leaders and the Congress was declared illegal. Spontaneous popular revolts broke out through out the country with the battle cry of 'British Quit India'
Beauty Of Dreams
"If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours."
Dreaming is an act of pure imagination, attesting in all men a creative power, which if it were available in waking, would make every man a Dante or Shakespeare.
Dreams are only thoughts you didn't have time to think about during the day.
Dreaming permits each and every one of us to be quietly and safely insane every night of our lives.
I am accustomed to sleep and in my dreams to imagine the same things that lunatics imagine when awake.
That which the dream shows is the shadow of such wisdom as exists in man, even if during his waking state he may know nothing about it.... We do not know it because we are fooling away our time with outward and perishing things, and are asleep in regard to that which is real within ourself.
Huge and mighty forms that do not live like living men, moved slowly through the mind by day and were trouble to my dreams.
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Republic Day
Indian history marks Republic Day, 26 January 1950 as one of the most important day because on this day the Indian Constitution came into force making India a sovereign country. It was a day of great value to all the citizens of India and all the great freedom fighters as well. 26 January is a national holiday that has it’s own importance for every citizen of India.
26 January is celebrated in New Delhi every year and the Republic Day parade is the most important feature of this Day. People come from distant places to view the celebrations of Republic Day and salute the culture of their nation. President of India takes the salute and makes this event all the more patriotic.
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